Success mantras of happy marriage

Marriage is the oldest and most beautiful institution of mankind where two people owing each other nothing; decide to owe each other everything. To spend their lives paying a debt they never incurred, because a marital relationship is the one interaction between two people with the greatest degree of intimacy, bonding, sacrifice and exposure. Successful marriages lay the foundation of successful society. In India marriages are celebrated for the whole life with magical rituals and tradition like Karvachouth and Teej.  With the increasing cases of divorce GP tried to explore the secrets of happy marriage life.

Faith and cooperation is the lifeline of conjugal relations. Aruna Agarwal, social activist opines, “Husband and wife are the wheels of a vehicle so coordination and cooperation are very much required for smooth running of life. Without faith, cooperation and tolerance marriage can’t sustain for long. I manage my house and family whereas my husband manages the business. We both try to focus our area of domain. I believe focus is very much required. Fulfilling your part of responsibility honestly and with the sense of making the life of your life partner easy and comfortable makes the relation healthy and strong. My husband is a busy businessman so I made a point to take the responsibility of the family. House is the unit of the country and as Aristotle said-“good mother makes a good country.” If the family is happy and husband is satisfied the marriage will be a happy marriage forever.”

Ditto Sarita Tekriwal, housewife, “faith is the foundation of marital relations. I’m lucky that my husband is very cooperating and he understands the value of relations. He always manages to takeout time for me and children out of his tough schedule. I think it is very important for the relation to give time to each other as it enhances the understanding and clears the confusion. We both take things lightly and try to fill our moments with humor and laughter. After several years of our marriage I still feel freshness in our relations. Willingness to make the spouse happy works like magic as instead of demanding we should try to be giving in nature. I enjoy my role in my life.”

Ego spoils any relation and it hampers the process of coordination and cooperation. Vandana Saraf, housewife  is against of blasted ego and finds joint family as a catalyst in beautiful conjugal relation, “I live in joint family and I feel that living together is better than living alone. In joint family responsibilities are shared and one always gets easily a strong shoulder to shed tears and share laughter. Adjustment is the success mantra of life. My husband is a busy person and I understand my part of responsibility so I just try to make a balance in the family by living up my role honestly. Marriage is like a vintage wine the older it gets the better it becomes. With the passage of time two people become soul mates. Ego soils the beauty of the relation so it should be never written in capital letters on the page of life. Life is the name of adjustment so why to hesitate in making adjustments in conjugal life.”   

Ditto Sadhna Agarwal, housewife “Ego spoils the relations of husband and wife. Flexibility rejuvenates relations and rigidity makes it stale. There should be always some space in life for adjustments. Seeking cooperation without fulfilling responsibilities of family makes the relation week. I live in a joined family and I think that comforts are more in joint family. It gives you spare time to spend with your husband. In the midst of many relations the relation with spouse flourishes as plants grow better in a garden. Cooperation is the key to success of life. We should be responsible and accountable for our part in the family and life. Managing life is easy if it is away from confusion and selfishness.”